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and in this respect, it irrigates the deserts that our lives have already become." C.S. Lewis

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Thank You For The Birthday Greetings...

I spent the summer of my 16th birthday as a staff member at a summer camp. Knowing my extreme shyness a friend initiated a stealth campaign of sorts, and my day was peppered with discreet whispers in passing. “Happy Birthday!”  People I didn’t know stopped to smile quickly, greet me, and move on. 
It was a merry way to celebrate Sweet 16.

I still don’t enjoy being the focus of public attention, but I love birthdays.  Not gifts per se, but being remembered, thought about and wished well.  I enjoy this tradition of celebrating a particular individual from among the masses, because people tend to get lost within the rushing eddy of life.  The world arena is cluttered with drama, communities are caught up in crises, churches are rife with conflict and families are battling on multiple fronts.  The needs of the whole consume the wants and preferences of the individual.  They have to.  We raise families, manage businesses, administer care, educate, and concern ourselves with all the other tasks vital to keeping the machinery of life up-and-running.

And yet.

I like acoustic music best, and a good book in the right chair with a lamp perched just so.  I enjoy different tea with friends than I do alone.  My husband is my favorite dining companion.  Snickerdoodles are my preferred cookie,
and flowers --anywhere-- make me happy. 

Those are some of the elements of me.  And I like to remember that there is a different list for each of us.  Because, submerged under the current of the collective, the faces of individuals are displayed for anyone who takes the time to look.   When I do, I acknowledge the distinct value of each one uniquely made for a special purpose.   I reflect God when I look closely at another person, because He looks closely at me.  It is this personal attention that conveys the strongest argument for my confidence in God’s promises to be a present help.
“I have redeemed you.  I have called you by name.  You are mine.”

So, I am thankful for the plentiful hugs, the dropped-off cards, the tin of bath scrub and the homemade cheesecake.  I am thankful for every whispered greeting of “Happy Birthday” – because in the crowded floods and fires of life I love being called by name.

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